HIV organisations have today released a new campaign targeting gay men in relationships. Between the Sheets, a magazine-style resource, is being distributed as an insert in gay and lesbian community newspapers across Australia. The campaign was developed by the Australian Federation of AIDS Organisations (AFAO), the National Association of People living with HIV/AIDS (NAPWA), and the Western Australian AIDS Council (WAAC).
The key focus of the campaign is on the agreements that gay men make about sex inside and outside their relationship. Research shows that approximately 70% of Australian gay men are in relationships. Most men in relationships have agreements about safe sex inside and outside the relationship. Where both partners are the same HIV status – whether it is positive or negative – these agreements usually include a decision to stop using condoms within the relationship. Studies have shown that this has been the norm for many years, however, problems can arise when agreements are unclear, or are broken.
Perth researcher and new AFAO President, Dr Graham Brown said: ‘The campaign aims to celebrate our relationships while raising awareness of areas where difficulties can occur. Many HIV infections still occur in the first few months of a new relationship. Most of us have experienced the exhilaration of new romance, however, it is important to remember that before throwing away the condoms, HIV testing and openly discussing an agreement that covers sex inside and outside the relationship needs to happen.’
The campaign places HIV within the everyday lives of gay men, so it also addresses difficult issues, such as domestic violence, and problems that may arise from drug use.
In many relationships, one or both partners may be HIV-positive. NAPWA President, Robert Mitchell, said: ‘This campaign raises some of the important issues that can arise for couples where one of us is HIV-positive, and directs people to where they can find more information and support.’
Perth research shows that some men break their safe sex agreements by having unsafe sex with casual partners. WAAC Executive Director, Trish Langdon said: ‘Only a small number of men break their agreements by having unsafe sex with casual partners. However we need to be brave about dealing with these situations and develop strategies that protect both partners and the relationship. This should include returning to condoms until new HIV tests are taken. Clear agreements and strategies about managing such situations, along with regular HIV and STI testing are key to maintaining sexual health and safe relationships.’
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Phillip Keen is the HIV Educator – Gay Men with AFAO.
